all about the friendship

aku terharu banget sama temen"ku. liburan kali ini banyak banget yang sms aku yang isinya berkaitan ama persahabatan (friendship).


ini dia beberapa contohnya.


Jangan jadi teman seperti AWAN yang meneduhkan tapi buat hati ketakutan.
Jangan jadi teman seperti MENTARI yang hanya bersahabat di kala pagi.
Jangan jadi teman seperti REMBULAN yang hanya datang di kala malam.
Jangan jadi teman seperti BINTANG yang hilang ditelan malam dan jarak yang memisahkan.
Tapi...
Jadilah teman seperti UDARA yang tak terlihat dan tak teraba, tapi hadirnya kita rasakan dan akan selalu ada di setiap langkah kita.


atau yang kayak gini...


Meski mawar adalah bunga cinta, tapi melati tetap bunga paling suci
Meski pacar adalah kenangan terindah, tapi sahabat tetap kenangan paling abadi


ada lagi yang kayak gini.


aku punya ulat. ulatku suka manjat. waktu aku naik pesawat, ulatku nyangkut di kawat. lalu aku bawa ke ruang gawat darurat. kata sang perawat ulatku ga boleh makan daun yang lebat.
semoga aku dan kamu tetap jadi SAHABAT sampe dunia kiamat...


en sebenernya masih buanyak lagi. ini aja kayaknya udah cukup, hehe...


pernah, suatu hari aku pergi ke Royal Plaza, ngejagain stand sekolahku yang ikut acara bazaar sekolah muslim yang diadain majalah Nurani waktu itu (tepatnya kapan, aku lupa). trus, pas udah sekitar jam setengah tujuh malem atau lebih, ada seorang cewek yang lewat di depan stand sekolahku. trus dia ngeliatin aku. akhirnya kuliatin balik. trus aku sadar, dia mirip seseorang. tapi siapa, ya? dia jalan terus sambil agak curi" pandang ke aku. I just let her go.


lalu, aku jalan ke panggung untuk liat apa yang ditampilin selanjutnya. aku sama cewek itu tadi ketemu lagi, dia ngeliatin aku lagi, dan aku ngeliatin dia juga. akhirnya dia buka mulut manggil namaku.
"Opi!!!"
dan aku pun manggil namanya.
"Rani!!!!"
ga nyangka, setelah bertaun" ga ketemu, aku akhirnya ketemu best friend-ku pas es-de! thanks, Allah! 


nah, hasil pengamatanku adalah seorang sahabat baik ga akan melupakan sahabat baiknya.


itulah sedikit cerita dariku. pokoknya, FRIENDSHIP NEVER ENDS!!!

"I'm sick of you!"

hey hey! finally I'm back!

but wait, maybe you'll think "why this crazy unpredictable girl wrote that title like that? is she pissed off?"

no... no... actually I want to share to you about that. sick of someone.

have you ever sicked of someone? I think the answer is yes. me, too. I often sick of some person who disturbed me, or said something I didn't like, etc. and that's normal. it's automatically, right?

but, did you know that the feeling can hurts our heart? and sometimes we hate something or someone that's not supposed to be hated. it's wrong, if we want to think twice. maybe for our dignity, we said "that's so eww..." or "she is jerk!" or "I'm sick of the colour of her clothes." I think it's not needed.

I want to tell you a little story of my experience. I hated someone. I didn't know what's the reason I could hate her. and it had happened for so many weeks or some month. then, slowly I realized that I was wrong. but I still searched for the reason to still hate her. how jerk I was!

then my friends told me not to hate someone too much. then I thought, "that's right. I promise I'm not gonna hate her anymore." then now we can be friends again, although we're not as close as we were.

in here I want to say sorry to her. and for all of you who read this post, don't hate someone too much, because maybe the one who you hate is better than you, or they ever helped you in the past.

but if you sick of someone (maybe me?) right now, just sing this song. check it.

You know fairy tales don't come true

Not when it comes to you

Open up for the first time

And you can bet that it's the last time

And I'm cool with laying low

It's Saturday night and I'm staying home

I'm feeling good for the first time

It's been awhile since the last time

I'll wave goodbye when you say hello, oh

I'm sick of the sleepless, never ending nights

I just don't care who is wrong or right

I'm sick of the rumors and the alibis

You tear me up, I'll cut you down to size

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

Sick of all of your little lies

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

Sick of all the girls by your side

What you don't know is how

Great it feels to let you go

About your game, it's so see through

You know I'm way too good for you

I'm moving on to the next time

Dropped the baggage and I'll be fine

With time to reminisce

You're gonna realize you miss this

You're on my mind for the last time

And at the most you were a pass time

I'll wave goodbye when you say hello, oh

I'm sick of the sleepless, never ending nights

I just don't care who is wrong or right

I'm sick of the rumors and the alibis

You tear me up, I'll cut you down to size

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

Sick of all of your little lies

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

Sick of feeling not by your side

What you don't know is how

Great it feels to let you go

I'm happier alone

Take down your pictures and I'll throw

Those memories out the door, I'm

Sick of you, so sick of you

Sick of all of your little lies

I'm sick of the sleepless, never ending nights

I just don't care who is wrong or right

I'm sick of the rumors and the alibis

You tear me up, I'll cut you down to size

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

Sick of all of your little lies

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

So I'm getting on with my life

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

So sick of you, whoa whoa

So, so sick of you, so sick of you

So sick of you, oh whoa

What you don't know is how

Great it feels to let you go